Wednesday, February 01, 2006

Small-talk...What's That?

For the first time since I’ve been back, I finally felt some of the reverse culture shock I was expecting.  The whole occurrence made me realize that I still feel more comfortable talking to people from other countries than I do to people from my own country.  When you get into a social, yet very non-social situation like a club/bar, it really shows up.  All I have been doing so far is talking about my trip (mainly from people asking me questions).  But what happens when you get into a situation where people don’t ask questions?

To be honest, I didn’t know what to do.  What is Canadian small-talk?  I noticed the same thing when I got back from China.  I’d walk into a store and wonder what I was supposed to say to the shopkeeper.  What I found was that you could only talk so much about the weather.

Until I figure out how to small-talk in this country, club/bar experiences might be a bit rough….

5 Comments:

At 10:47 p.m., Blogger Jean said...

What are these club/bars you speak of? It's been so long I can't quite recall what they're all about or what happens there...?

 
At 10:53 p.m., Blogger kent said...

Well, people congregate to drink, dance, and generally have a good time. Tonight was "Salsa Night." Go figure that there were a bunch of Chileans in the house. When I showed them Nacho's dance, they just laughed and said, "We don't do that in Chile."

I did learn a few salsa steps, but I looked awfully robot-like doing them.

 
At 4:45 a.m., Blogger Unknown said...

Wait! If they don't dance like that in Chile... then that means... Nacho's an IMPOSTER!!! Just look at the way he wears his scarf all the time. He's secretly an Indian rickshaw driver!!!

 
At 9:39 a.m., Blogger kent said...

I think you're on to something, Samantha. Maybe we should have the Indian government do a background check on him. We might be a bit surprised by what information is found out.

 
At 2:54 a.m., Blogger _ said...

you bet!! i have somehow notice that i have a better comfort feel with my english collgues than my indian coworkers... wonder will it be when i go back...
good one though!! i am really happy you decided to keep this blog updated its really fun reading stuff on your blog.

 

Post a Comment

<< Home